Maturity

For someone to become mature, it may take their entire life time or just a few incidents. It purely depends on how you are looking at the things happening around you and  happening with you also what you are going to learn from those. Many times I got comments and messages that I didn't get what you are saying 🤔 well what to say.  only 2-3 from my connection will resonate and will get what I meant. So this time, let me give and example to convey what I mean. I hope that will help.

Let's say something happened in the world regarding political event, celebrity event or some local event. Thanks to the social media that people get platform to show their anger  and not necessarily it's their genuine anger towards that incident. For example, some political event happened, now few will post against that and few will post in favour of that.  I will not read either of them not because I don't care about it or I am not giving it importance to it but to save my energy and time so that I can focus on what is in my control.  I have never voted till date. Whenever election will be there, I will google about the person standing from my area and till now I never got anyone to whom I can cast my vote. Instead of looking at the direct person to whom I can vote, If I will look for the political party or the biggest person/face of the party then will it be a good choice? Will NAMO come to my street and take the necessary action to make the road proper? No right, It's the candidate who is standing from my ward. Ofcource I will listen to my PM/CM's speech to get knowledge about where they are driving us, but I won't cast my vote based on their speech. We all studied about the food chain and the chain part you can relate to almost everything around us.

Now let's say I am in this political game and I am at the lowest level. Here I need to look few levels up and few levels down in the chain. I might need to comment on things happening  in a political environment to be in that chain and to grow in it. Most importantly, I need to look towards peoples to whom I have to serve and one level up where I want to step up in  the future. Now let's say I am not in this chain at all. Do I need to comment on anything happening in politics? This is not the question, the correct set of questions will be 

1. Showing my anger or commenting on social media will change anything? 

2. If I am the direct person getting affected then am I taking an action on the right way and on right platform or it's just I am wasting time instead of following right procedure?

I have no rights to tell you whether you are mature or not nor I wanted to do that.  Each and every one has a duty to serve. We choose people to do service to us, If they are not doing it change them next time and be wise while choosing instead of being wild while posting:) Focus your energy on what is your duty and getting knowledge which will help you to grow. Keep sharing your learning and keep serving to your society in a way you can. Stop wasting your energy  and start focusing on your learning, share your experience and help someone to grow.  I said it earlier and I am quoting it here again "Lot of things make sense, you don't have to follow. Just agree, make sense ok and do what is good for your inner peace and good for society"

Make changes to own life and help someone to change for better. The chain will continue and hopefully one day our next generation will breath in better society.